Katie’s Wedding Weekend in Raleigh North Carolina -The Big Day!!!

The Big Day. It’s finally here!

Katie and I got up very early to pack for her big day. We were so excited that John had coffee and breakfast tacos ready for us…yum! We had one bridesmaid with us and our first task was to go to Chick Fil A to pick up a bucket of nuggets, a jug of coffee and breakfast sandwiches for the bridesmaids who had not had time to eat.

Once at the venue we met the hairdresser and makeup artist taking turns getting pretty for the wedding. Katie would be last which was good because the DJ and coordinator had a few last minute questions for her. John arrived at 1:30 and was able to grab a few private moments with the bride and took care of communications between her and Brooks since they did not want to see one another prior to the ceremony.

My son and his family arrived and I was elated because my grandson Cameron would be walking me down the aisle and he looked so dapper in his new suit and new transition glasses. He and I practiced a little secret handshake to do as he seated me which made it extra special for me.

It was amazing how the golf club transformation took place. I had seen and heard Katie's vision but seeing it unfold was really a treat. Her colors were perfect, the signs, special pictures and her bridal portrait were perfect. Instead of a guest book she had a painted globe for everyone to sign and it was fun seeing all the florist, caterers, DJ's and others make the place a magical wedding backdrop.

The time came to put on our dresses and take some professional pictures as the guests were arriving. I had one moment of panic because I lost so much weight that my dress was no longer tight…it was loose and a little too long. John was there to calm my nerves and assure me no one would know so crisis abated. I did fall up the steps once, though while tripping over the length (haha).

As the time had come the music queued and the coordinator lined us up. Then the French doors opened and Cameron and I paused at the top of the stairs then made our way down the aisle. After our handshake we could relax and enjoy the procession. Brooks dad took his place as the Best Man with Brooks then each of the 5 bridesmaids came with their groomsmen. Next came Morgan, the maid of honor, then my heart exploded as John and Katie emerged at the top of the stairs. I lost it.

My heart was filled with such joy that my tears fell all the way down the aisle. They looked absolutely stunning. Her dress was breathtaking and my John was so very handsome. He presented her and then came by my side for the ceremony which was beautiful. Brooks and Katie recited their own vows which were a mixture of funny and romantic. It was truly special and so very awesome.

After pictures we were released to the head table to start the reception. The DJ was great and kept the party lively. Drinks flowed, cornhole and jenga was played along with dancing to the music. The bridesmaids and groomsmen had coordinated dances as they arrived to the reception which was very entertaining. Katie and Brooks arrived and had their first dance, then the groom and his mother dance, and Katie with her father dance. So awesome.

Dinner was delightful…pork loin, caramelized onions, gouda mac and cheese, walnut mandarin salad and bread. Yum. Then dancing, throwing the bouquet, the garter and socializing. Before we knew it there was the sendoff with sparklers. The newlyweds drove off in a vintage 1958 Rolls Royce. So cool. Magical, romantic, perfect…

John, Jason, Kelly, the kids and I along with Brooks family quickly packed away the leftover food, the decorations, and pictures then off we went. What fun we had but we will need a few days rest I think after such a hectic schedule! Back to our Road of Retirement is planned for the Tuesday after the wedding. We hope to see you on down the road…

NOTE: Sorry for all the photos ; )    We are now in Fort McAllister State Park near Savannah GA as we slowly migrate to Florida…